And we made a schedule. I made it. He saw it. He knows it. His freakin' fiancee knows it. She was there when I wrote it!!
So please, someone tell me why, WHY is it so impossible for him to stick to it?? Okay first off. Your horses, are your horses. I don't care what you do with them it's your business not mine. Tell me how you like them taken care of when you're gone, and I'll to it exactly how you say. MY horses, are MY horses. That being said, if you tell me you will take care of them while I'm gone, then I expect you to take care of them how I want them taken care of, just as I do for you. Even if you think it's ridiculous to feed their hay in net bags, and always check their water, and add flax seed oil to their grain, or put their hay bags inside if it's raining, that is how I want my horses taken care of. If that doesn't work for you then I need to know so that I can find another place for my horses to live. Second, if we write a schedule, one that both parties agree on, saying what days who feeds and who doesn't, then we should both stick to that schedule. If you decide to randomly feed on one of the days I'm supposed to and you don't even tell me, then I drive out there and will either feed them again - which is dangerous and unhealthy for the horse AND a waste of our money - or I'll have to investigate to see if I can figure out if you have fed or not. I know it's your house and your barn, so if you're around you might as well feed - I get that thinking. But if you want to randomly feed them AT LEAST TELL ME BEFOREHAND!!!!!!
I'm going to fucking lose my mind.
So please, someone tell me why, WHY is it so impossible for him to stick to it?? Okay first off. Your horses, are your horses. I don't care what you do with them it's your business not mine. Tell me how you like them taken care of when you're gone, and I'll to it exactly how you say. MY horses, are MY horses. That being said, if you tell me you will take care of them while I'm gone, then I expect you to take care of them how I want them taken care of, just as I do for you. Even if you think it's ridiculous to feed their hay in net bags, and always check their water, and add flax seed oil to their grain, or put their hay bags inside if it's raining, that is how I want my horses taken care of. If that doesn't work for you then I need to know so that I can find another place for my horses to live. Second, if we write a schedule, one that both parties agree on, saying what days who feeds and who doesn't, then we should both stick to that schedule. If you decide to randomly feed on one of the days I'm supposed to and you don't even tell me, then I drive out there and will either feed them again - which is dangerous and unhealthy for the horse AND a waste of our money - or I'll have to investigate to see if I can figure out if you have fed or not. I know it's your house and your barn, so if you're around you might as well feed - I get that thinking. But if you want to randomly feed them AT LEAST TELL ME BEFOREHAND!!!!!!
I'm going to fucking lose my mind.
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